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Where to Start?

2009-12-09T10:23:00.000-08:00

Where to Start?

When faced with a crossroad it often seems so hard to decide which way to go. The first step is to always start walking. Life throws these crossroads at us, just as it seems we are getting closer to our destination. I realize that we can get stuck for so long being indecisive or scared to move. But we can't stop, life is ever changing. The first thing we must do is to start walking. Even if don't know where this path will lead put on your nikes and "Just Do It"

Escape

2009-12-07T23:32:00.000-08:00

I sit here and watch days go bye
Not even having the strength to let myself cry
Or let myself feel, too scared of the feeling
Cant even face the pain, so where is the healing
Laying here so hard not to reminisce
Of ur laugh, ur touch, ur kiss
Ur eyes, ur voice, ur smile
All the things that simply drive me wild
Wonderin if u still thinking of me
is our future too blurry to see
They say time will tell
Meanwhile it feels like im livin in hell
Fighting within me to call u all the time
So hard when its only u on my mind
I wanna give u sum space
Jus keep having dreams of ur pretty face
I regret so many things I wish I could take it back
Never meant to scare u, hurt u, n that is just a fact
I wish u forgive me, so we can continue living
So our love can continue to grow, their r no ceilings
Without u, writing is my only escape
And I know I made my share of mistakes
But being without u I cant take……..

2009-10-29T07:17:00.000-07:00

Realization

The scary part isn't finding something out, its realizing that you knew it all along.

When a relationship goes bad
Or knowing which paths to follow
Know who to trust

Most times we know whats right all along but fear of change, fear of being hurt, fear of pain cause us ignore those feelings.

So when we do actually realize and accept the truth we aren't hurt by the fact that the issue occurred. But yet we are upset because we knew all along.

Listen to your first mind

What is a Title?

2009-09-23T19:07:00.000-07:00

Sometimes I think we get so caught up on a title, that we forget to just live. We so busy trying to define what we have we dont appreciate what we have.

Instead of trying to force titles I think we could take the extra time to make sure you really know the person. Not just whats their favorite drink or club, but know how they think and understand how their mind works. A common misconception is that lesbians understand each other better. Sometimes I think it may be harder for two girls to understand each other. We get so busy being caught up in how we think and feel we dont consider that other person. Being in a relationship should be a considerable difference that just kicking it with or dating someone. I think the communication is different, the trust is different and the love is different.

What is a Title?

If you know you love a person and are happy with them, take the extra time to wait and give you and your partner the best possible chance of lasting beyond the typical three months. Dont Let a Title Define you, you DEFINE it

Maintaining A Healthy Relationship

2009-09-20T13:55:00.000-07:00

Maintaining a healthy relationship

We often speak on how to forgive and how to let go. But I think its time we spoke on how to maintain a healthy happy relationship and no it’s not impossible. If you apply these steps to your relationship you will increase the longevity as well as the happiness.

Compromise- It seems as though this would be obvious but its not. Learning how to compromise from the biggest down to the smallest details will help you have a healthy ship There is a CLEAR difference between compromise. I’m not saying to compromise who you are but to compromise how you handle things. From small things like what to watch, what to eat, where to go all of these things are small but having an equal balance of what you like and what she likes helps the 50 50 process.

Listening- Everyone is not a good listener and some hear what they want to hear. Another key to a healthy relationship is being a good listener. One way to test ur listening skills is, if you hear your mate mention something such as a place she would like to visit, or a dessert she would like to try surprise her. Surprise her and take her to the restaurant or make the dessert she mentioned. This shows ur ability to listen as well as take the time to make her happy.

Communication- A lot of relationships go bad becuz of lack of communication. When starting a relationship a person should know enough information about who you are now, who u were, and where you plan on going. I’m not saying say OVER TALK about ur ex but that should have a general idea of what happened and know ur current status with ur ex’s meaning whether yall talk or not. They should know what you currently have going on and what ur future plans are. So many people don’t know one of these or even all 3 so when situations arise they don’t handle it right because they didn’t not have preparation.

Another part of communication is daily activities if your and your partner are in sync they should know where you are and what you doing for the day. Keeps down confusion and also helps keep the trust. Even if its I have practice then dinner that communicating to them and it shows you can be responsible and trusted.

2 BE CONTINUED!!!